Quite often all that appears in us in the form of negativity (be it emotions, behavior,
or ailments) is highly connected with how we think. Hence, basically, our self-limiting
beliefs have a quite long past. Our entire disposition stands on childhood and social
experiences, we usually start associating with as we grow older. However, there is
something that is beyond identification, esteem, confidence, and ego; it is our acceptance of ourselves. Oftentimes, we are quite hard on ourselves and do not love ourselves as much as we need to. We waste a great deal of time, emotions, and energy to please others so that we can feel valued. This all could be saved if only we
can love ourselves a bit and let us release those self-love blockages.
How NLP can help you remove self-love blockages?
Remove low vibrations
In comparison to radiating inner confidence and self-belief, this low vibrational
thinking is likely to look less desirable or attractive to others. As a result, you are less
likely to attract real love. It's crucial to highlight that we all have moments of
self-doubt, and it's perfectly natural in moderation. However, allowing these beliefs to
take hold and create your inner personality can severely limit your potential to
Do not take anything personally
To avoid taking anything personally, simply begin to train yourself to maintain a
certain amount of separation. Detachment is essential in dating since love
disappointment is a crippling experience for many individuals. It can even prevent
you from going on dates in the first place. It may even prevent you from ever
meeting the one who truly desires you.
Identify the inner critic and stop listening to it
Identifying the critic inside you will assist you in moving away from viewing it as fact
or your own point of view. It will enable you to distinguish and oppose its damaging
commands. Remember that letting go of your inner critic is letting go of an old
identity, which, while unpleasant, can be comforting in its familiarity. Breaking away
from this criticism will cause worry, but it will be a war worth winning. Pushing
through the anxiousness and constantly disputing your inner critic will help you to
discover and become your authentic self.
Establishing and maintaining your own limits will bring you a little closer to self-love.
It is critical that you understand what kind of people or behaviours you will not
tolerate and that you do not compromise on this. When you begin to establish your
self-worth and refuse to settle for less than you deserve, you will begin to reject
people with bad intentions and attract those who want to love you.
These tried and tested steps followed by NLP practitioners will surely assist you in
letting go of the inner critic and you will start accepting yourself even more. Even you
can take professional help as well if loving yourself is becoming a great hurdle. After
all, there can be no love as great as self-love.